Based on the changes you’ve gone through.
It seems counterintuitive because focusing on yourself seems selfish.
But the world around you truly does improve when you improve.
We tend to get frustrated when others don’t change the way they look at us, especially when we’ve gone through transformation.
But we need to be careful. Sometimes, we’ve forgotten to change the way we look at others, because we’ve held them up as the problem for so long.
Return to an old situation with a new perspective, and you may be surprised to find the changes you’ve longed for have already taken place.