How Long Have You Been a Perfectionist?

How Long Have You Been a Perfectionist?

I was recently coaching a participant in the leadership program I’m in.

He shared about what was going on in his project, where things were going wrong, his concerns for how his team would react to his requests… it went on and on.

I stopped him dead in his tracks and asked:

“So, how long have you been a perfectionist? And what areas of your life does it affect?”

He admitted that he saw it playing out in every area of life.

For the remainder of our time together, we focused on identifying possibilities, actions, and conversations that would light him up. No sense trying to dig for gold in the same old predicament.

People sometimes wonder why it seems like I’m working so hard…

But the reality is perfectionism steals us of the few years we have available to accomplish all the things we hope to.

Just today, my aunt had her birthday. I don’t know her exact age. Late 50s? Early 60s? Hard to believe.

65 is just a made up number for a retirement age, but it’s amazing to me how many people around me are starting to get up there.

Time is precious, and it’s not going to wait for anyone.

One of the reasons we get so caught up in perfectionism is because we end up dragging yesterday into today.

Don’t get me wrong – it’s a very human thing to do.

But because we want things to go a certain way, because we don’t want to get hurt again, because we had that bad experience that one time…

We insist on perfectionism.

We try to control all the variables we can control (when there are precious few).

And the people around us only end up confused and not wanting to work with us because from their vantage point, it looks like we’re unsure of ourselves and what we want.

I can’t solve perfectionism for you in 300 words.

What I can do is make an offer. And trust me when I say I do this because I love you.

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Getting the Right Stuff Done in Your Music Career

Getting the Right Stuff Done in Your Music Career

Some artists over-plan. But I would contend that the vast majority of artists under-plan.

And what happens when we under-plan is that we get drawn into a flurry of urgent activity that may well be important, but probably won’t cause the results or breakthroughs we’re looking for in our music careers.

No matter who you are, you’re going to have fires to put out. But if you don’t set aside as least 60 to 120 minutes per day for your core activities, you’re not going to be as effective as you could be.

The reason you have access to this resource now is because I set aside time to work on it first thing in the morning. Depending on the day, I checked Slack, or sent off an invoice, or answered a couple of emails before getting started. But the number one thing I saw to do was get this work done, even if it wasn’t perfect. I prioritized it.

If you treat your work like professionals approach theirs, and you show up to practice daily, you’re going to get to a point in your music career where you can do most things in your sleep.

It’s honestly one of the reasons I took a bit of a break from music in the mid-2010s – I was getting so good at it; it wasn’t presenting much of a challenge for me!

My point is that you can really let go of perfectionism at that point. I would urge you to. Free and clear of that burden, you’re going to start getting your life work done instead of worrying about that guitar track with too much finger noise. Unless it’s grating to the ear, no big deal! That’s real guitar playing!

J-Rock band B’z recently released their music on streaming services (which came as a surprise to me and my sister, who’ve been keeping a close watch on this development). Just for reference, they are one of the best-selling artists in the world and have 49 consecutive No. 1 singles to their name.

Recently, I’ve been going back and listening to their catalog (starting at the beginning), and it’s been quite instructive for me.

What I’ve been seeing is that, in their early days, they released two albums per year! They were incredibly prolific and relied heavily on drawing from music that already had a proven track record (Hall & Oates, Jimi Hendrix, Dan Reed Network, Aerosmith, Van Halen, etc.). They weren’t afraid to recycle their own chord progressions and ideas either. I’m not saying there was no quality control – what I am saying is they did everything in their power to ensure they were landing those hits!

Despite their immense success, the members of B’z have never taken extended breaks since their inception in 1988. They keep blazing a trail, and it’s unlike anything we’ve ever seen.

How you prioritize today will be how you prioritize the next 30 years. Don’t wait to get started on your life work. Get to work today and keep moving forward. Let go of perfectionism, because 30 years from now you will have added that precious polish to your performance.

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Weekly Digest: September 11, 2021

Weekly Digest: September 11, 2021

David Andrew Wiebe: July 2021What are you working on right now?

What are you forcing yourself to work on?

And what do you actually want to be working on?

These are innocuous sounding questions, but as I’ve been discovering, what lies beneath the surface level answers might just surprise you.

This week, I engaged in the creation of multiple videos – some talking head, but mostly guitar shorts / memes.

I also ended up releasing a 15-minute guided meditation (which will be available on all online music stores and streaming platforms on September 24!).

With all the blogging I’ve been doing, and predominantly informational content I’ve been creating, you may have assumed that I’ve been working on exactly what I want to be working on. But the truth is, most of this represents things I’ve been forcing myself to do. And it took some looking for me to understand this.

Do you know how long I’ve been thinking about making meditation audios or guitar videos? Probably years!

So, there’s all this pent-up energy that’s finally starting to burst and find its expression. And it has basically meant thinking differently about daily blogging and content creation in general. Because I realized most projects, I want to be working on fit nicely into this schedule.

If you think you know David Andrew Wiebe, well… you’re really just beginning to see all that he’s about.

I don’t know how long I’ve been bottling up my own expression. But it has been too long.

Don’t let your mind rule your creativity. Let your heart lead too.

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Must-Have Resource

There’s a personal development program I’ve been through three times, and each time I go through it, I learn more about myself and what matters most to me. I’ve also been able to improve my health, grow my business, and challenge myself intellectually.

The name of the program is The Gold Within.

Any artist looking to get clear on the impact and difference they want to make in the world (their brand) should go through The Gold Within program at least once.

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Final Thoughts

Thank you for your creativity and generosity. I’m rooting for you.

Why You Insist on Perfectionism

Why You Insist on Perfectionism

It takes something to be vulnerable and authentic. To set aside your insecurities – even own up to them – to create a connection with others. But the results are always worth it.

In this video, I show up authentically. No filters. No music. No sound effects. Double chin and all (mostly because I’m bulking right now – expect that to go way soon). I admit to my own insecurities. And I share about the root of perfectionism, how perfectionism can ruin your creativity, why perfectionism is your own standard, and the impact of insisting on perfectionism.

Video Highlights:

  • 00:00 – Why do you insist on perfection?
  • 00:57 – I’m insecure just as you are
  • 01:20 – Perfectionism is stopping you from being all you could be
  • 01:51 – Perfectionism is ruining your creativity
  • 03:10 – Perfectionism is a standard
  • 04:44 – The impact of insecurity
  • 05:39 – If you want to be prolific, don’t insist on perfection
  • 06:15 – The risk of being the linchpin
  • 07:00 – You are unique
  • 08:38 – Closing thoughts