The Magic of Listening

The Magic of Listening

You don’t listen. I don’t listen either. Because listening suggests we’re hearing what’s being said. Most of the time we’re not hearing what’s being said at all. And you’re already off in the weeds because you’re thinking, “the reason we’re not listening is because...
Stop Reinventing the Past

Stop Reinventing the Past

There’s no need to reinvent the past. In our efforts to look good or avoid looking bad, we often glance over our shortcomings and failures. And we’ve got the best excuses too. “It makes me look better in the eyes of my customers.” “It just sounds better that way.”...
The Critical Piece is Always Mindset

The Critical Piece is Always Mindset

95% of our programming is subconscious. That means about 95% of our lives happen on autopilot. We don’t make decisions based on the opportunities presented in the moment. We make decisions based on the past, and how things played out for us when we were confronted...
Making it to the Next Level

Making it to the Next Level

So, how do you make it to the next level? Many of us tend to over-complicate the process. Because the moment we see something isn’t going well, we tend to think everything is going awry. If you were to assume, just for a moment, that the universe is taking you on the...
There Are No Secrets

There Are No Secrets

So, I sometimes say things in conversation that people resonate with. That might be a bit of an understatement. What they usually say is: “You need to write an article about that!” Or… “Have you written an article about that?” Well, there are too many moments like...
Your Programming Runs Deep

Your Programming Runs Deep

Because of conditioning and programming, at times, we end up reverting to old thought patterns, behaviors, and actions that run counter to our intentions. In sharing some of my discoveries with a friend who’s been struggling with finances (because I knew she would...